I have recently fallen in love with skinny jeans and leggings. Heels really aren’t my thing and normally, I would wear UGG boots or ballet flats, but some outfits just don’t call for the winter boots but I am too cold to wear ballet flats. Are there any other comfortable, warm choices you would recommend to go with skinny jeans? Is it ever ok to wear a street shoe, like my slip-on sketchers with socks, with skinny jeans.
When I was first married, I made it a rule to always wear sexy little nighties to bed. After several months of this nonsense (in my defense I was only 23), I crashed into bed after working late wearing an old ratty t-shirt of my husband’s. He immediately rolled over, eyed me up and said, “Oooo…what’s this little number?” without a trace of sarcasm. Or irony. Needless to say, the sexy little nighties were relegated to the back of the closet.
The morale of this story? Don’t underestimate the power of change. Something different, something novel can be very, very sexy. Even if it’s a ratty old t-shirt. It’s the frequency that matters.
I love gorgeous lingerie. It makes me feel not only sexy, but spoiled. And I like me a little spoiled. Always have. In fact, right at this very moment, my closet contains a small arsenal of lacy, silky something-somethings…none of which fit anymore. ARGH!!! While I’ve happily weeded out all of my pre-baby clothes that no longer fit, I haven’t been able to bring myself to weed out the lingerie. I keep hoping that one day we will be happily reunited.
I’m still waiting.
So there it is. It might be time to move on. Since shopping always makes me feel just a wee bit better about…well, anything really (sick, I know), I started looking for a new little silky something as a consolation prize of sorts.
And there are all kinds of gorgeousness out there. I just don’t want to wear (most of) them. While I’m sure my husband would love me in anything, quite frankly it’s not about him. It’s about me. I need something that makes me feel gorgeous. And playful. And flirty. Something that isn’t too serious. Something that can get me out of the “Mom” frame of mind, but something also that makes me feel comfortable in my post-baby body. So yes – I’m looking for the Holy Grail of mom lingerie.
Did I find it? Nah. But I found some gorgeous-playful-flirty lingerie that is certainly worth a try. Don’t be afraid: there are no crotchless (or tasseled) anythings.
Rookie Moms, one of our all-time favorite mom blogs, asked us to guest post with the general theme of “sexy” in time for Valentine’s Day. First up: sexy jeans.
Are your jeans sexy? Or are they screaming, “I’m a mom with a saggy, saggy bum!!” Apply the hand-grab rule and find out.
I know, I know. It’s February. But I was about to post our January mom (late) and realized that we hadn’t yet posted our December mom. Sigh. Prior to becoming a mom, I had a slight problem with getting places on time. (I can hear my friends all snorting with derision). Now that I’m a mom, time has ceased to have any meaning whatsoever.
But our December mom is too good to miss. Meet Emily – she’s actually Raines’ nanny. So not technically a mom, but Em certainly knows how to look cute and be comfortable around the kiddos! I’m always amazed at what she puts together: she could seriously be a regular feature.
In any case, I wanted to highlight a cool trick that she taught me this past December.
Right about now, I’m starting to ache for Spring. Which means that I tend to view Denver’s eternally sunny skies optimistically: the sun is out, therefore it’s warm, right? No. Not by a long shot. Add to the mix the fact that magazines are filled with Spring fashion coverage, boutiques have winter items on super sale and window displays are showing the most fabulous little gauzy dresses, tops and sandals. BOOOOOOOO.
I could seriously use some fashion inspiration. So Molly and I asked a few boutique owners and a personal shopper at Nordstroms to put together some inspiring looks to help us get through the winter. First up? Stacy McElhany, mom of Emerson and owner of Violet Boutique, Denver.
Over the last year or so, there has been much discussion on Ain’t No Mom Jeans about the value of skinny jeans. I would dare say that many of you are under the assumption that skinny jeans should only be worn by size 2 gals. While I’ve always disagreed (I think skinny jeans can be flattering on a range of body types/sizes)….well, for many of you, the love wasn’t there.
But a picture is worth a thousand words, no? And no one can dispute that FashionAddict looks great in her skinnies.
The Splendid one-shoulder ruched tunic top ($49.00) doesn’t look like much at first glance, but it’s my new date night MVP for moms. Anyone can wear it and look hot and it can be styled up and down, sideways and every which way in between. The ruching is your post-baby-belly’s best friend, it’s crazy-good for nursing/pump-n-dumping (on your right side, anyway) and the one-shoulder cut is current, edgy and sexy without trying too hard. Oh, and you’ll be comfortable, ohhh so comfortable, in this buttery soft, whisper thin cotton/modal tee.
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