January has been moving a little slower… in a good way. Inside our community, the conversations have shifted from holiday chaos to easing back into routines. It’s been a mix of fresh starts and low-key motivation, without the pressure to do it all at once.
The Conversations, Routines, and Ideas Shaping Our January
This month we’re talking Valentine’s Day shop launch, movement goals that don’t feel overwhelming, free fitness guides, and all the non-fashion conversations that make things more interesting – like the family dinner recipe hits, garbage cans and laundry baskets that are actually…stunning, the must stop restaurants in every city and random questions that pop up when you’re just living your life.
Our Valentine’s Day Gift Shop Is Here
Valentine’s Day is finally here, so whether you’re building a little wish list or just feeling like showing yourself some extra love this year, we’re giving you a first look at what’s in the TME Shop – available for pre-order for our Discord members!
Members also get access to a special shop code for 15% off any order each month (including pre-orders 👀), which makes this a great time to start browsing. And if you don’t feel like waiting, a few longtime favorites are still available: the necklace Taylor Swift loves, our fave notebooks we keep restocking, and earrings Shana always gets compliments on.
Our Valentine’s Day pre-order kicks off with the sweetest heart earrings. They’re charming without feeling cheesy and perfect for Valentine’s Day (as well as every other day).
Starting the Year Strong: Movement Goals & Fitness Motivation
With the new year just getting started, we’re taking a moment to focus on ourselves. Our group chat has been buzzing with fitness motivation. Laurel just dropped this Women’s 40+ Full Body Dumbbell Workout that’s only 18 minutes long. We’ve been challenging each other to give it a go and Lisa B put it best. She said it’s “quick & crushing”. You got that right!
Try this 18 minute workout here
To hold ourselves accountable we have the “Move Club” channel. Each week, we check in on our goals, share our accomplishments (big or small), and celebrate progress… because sometimes just resting counts as a win too. Movement goals feel way easier when you’re not doing them alone. We also have our Beginner’s Weightlifting Guide for women 40+, free for all Discord users. Plus, we’ve got some really exciting fitness events in the works, so stay tuned. This year is all about getting stronger, together.
Beyond Outfits: Books, Food, Travel & Everyday Recommendations
Our Discord isn’t just about fashion. It’s where conversations wander into books, food (there’s been a lot of sourdough talk lately), and travel recommendations. Having a space to share ideas, ask questions, or just vent is what makes the group chat feel so useful… and fun.
We also really value member input. One suggestion in the chat turned into an article on our favorite scents and perfumes, and there’s always a place to ask those random questions… the accessories we forgot to link, how to organize athleticwear (by set, color, or item?), or which beauty products are actually worth the hype (looking at you, Jones Road). Add in book recommendations (shoutout @BSTa for Heart the Lover), everyday wins, and real-life support when things feel heavy. It’s a space that genuinely works for real life.
That’s just a glimpse of what we’ve been talking about this month. If you want to check it out without committing, there’s a free 7-day trial so you can see what it’s all about. We’d love to have you join us.
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We can’t wait to see you inside.
xo,
Aliya
