Mom Sexy. (Or What To Wear To See 50 Shades of Gray)


A reader let us know that she loves these Rebecca Minkoff Raz Stingray pumps…


Uhhh. No idea why. Maybe, because…HOLY HOT they are hot. Everything about them is – the sleek black, the straps, the pointy toe. Now, as much as this reader loves them, she would prefer if they were a bit more mom-friendly…

“S, how do I translate these sexy mothers into mom-friendly??”

They are sexy mothers. They really, really are. If we’re being honest with ourselves, it’s really impossible for a flat or lower heel to do the same job that these glorious pumps do (ps. they are on sale). I hear you on wanting them to be less of an ankle breaker though. I fantasize about my 5’10 frame wearing 4+ inch heels to all kinds of amazing places whilst toting my 25+ lb. baby, but in reality I never do and never really end up wanting to.

It just so happens that one of my resolutions for 2015 is to experiment and you know what, I really want to add some sexy to my look. Any of you mamas with me? I don’t mean the in-your-face, mini everything, Pretty Woman (pre Richard Gere) kind. That’d be weird and I’d probably land my own show on TLC. I’m talking about dressing subtly sexy. In my opinion, maintaining a bit of your mystery may just be the sexiest thing you can do. That whole Bombshell fantasy can just go away. There are realistic ways to be sexy, in the real world,  even as a mom with a pooch, bf-ing boobs, etc. I’m here to show you…and yeh, the hot pumps are included. They had to be. (THEY ARE WORTH THE PAIN)



Free People Galloon Wrap Bralette | Net-a-porter Belstaff biker jacket | Splendid Light Jersey V Neck | Frame Denim Le Skinny de Jeanne distressed mid-rise jeans

Sole Society Ivy T-strap flat

True & Co. Choux Bond Demi Bra | FP Surrey Harness Vest | FP Buckley Tee | Rag & bone high rise skinny jeans | Rebecca Minkiff Raz Dress Pumps


I know, it’s a lot of black…all black, actually. There’s a reason for this! Ever since I scrolled over this pin, I have been smitten with the idea of wearing an all black ensemble. It’s so simple, yet so fierce. I have found some other options below that aren’t black, but I really just wanted you to see how hot all black can be. Hot, hot, hot. Did I mention hot? Also, notice how I started every outfit with one very important element – underthings. If you feel sexy underneath your clothes, chances are you’ll probably look it too.

So. In an attempt to get my sexy on a bit more this year, I bought the Bond Bra and this shirt, which I hoped would allow me to show it off just the right amount. I was a little hesitant, because…well, I’m a mom…


It’s ooonnnn, 2015. Cams the fierce has been born. Raaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrr.


That’s me being fierce, by the way. I know, I totally killed it.

Literally. I killed it.

For Your Shopping Pleasure




Leather Jackets



Belts To Impress Christian Gray


*whip cracking* ooow oooooow.