February always feels like the quiet middle. The ease of wearing sparkles for the holidays has faded and spring with all its bright colors isn’t quite here… so we’re all just waiting. But inside our community? It’s been anything but dull. From an outfit guide that makes getting dressed actually fun again, to a convo that’s currently convincing us to all snag the same perfect pair of pants, this month has been about sharing what we’re loving.
Fresh Looks, Special Codes & The Little Things Keeping Us Going
And if there’s one thing we’re doing in our group chat (that probably comes a little too easy for us), it’s keeping it real. From outfit experiments to small wins in our routines, nothing is too random or too silly to celebrate… or obsess over for a little too long. It’s the little honest moments, the laughs, and the “oh, me too!” moments that’s been making this month feel surprisingly full, even in the quiet middle of winter. (As always, everything shared below is with full permission from our members!)
The Ruti Pants We All Ended Up Buying
Every once in a while, someone shares an OOTD and the entire community goes crazy. This month? Ashley’s Ruti pants were the obvious winner. Insanely versatile and the perfect travel + work pants. First it was all about the black pair but now we’re snatching up the navy animal print. It’s causing some FOMO 😂
Don’t worry… we won’t gatekeep the link! The must-have Ruti On The Loose Work Pants
Within days, half the chat was (and still currently is) ordering them. “They make everything you wear an outfit.” “They couldn’t be more comfortable.” “Famous Discord Ruti pants”… twinning season is officially upon us.
Retailer Promo Codes (All In One Place)
One of the most exciting things we’ve added this month is an Exclusive Codes channel… one organized, easy-to-find place for all the retailer codes we’ve secured for our community.
While we share some codes on social and the blog, there are 20+ additional ones living in Discord (and the list grows weekly). Here’s the best part: if there’s a piece everyone’s dreaming about (we’re looking at you, Ruti), we’ll reach out and see if we can get a code!
What To Wear In February (3 Easy Outfit Formulas)
We just dropped our newest guide: 3 Outfits To Wear This February. These looks feel intentional without being fussy, and are easier than your basic jeans + sweater (yes, really). We’re talking silhouettes, patterns, and textures to keep your eye out for… plus exactly how to style ’em up so they feel current but still completely wearable.
And as always, this guide, along with all of our past and future guides, is completely free for Discord members. Once you’re in, you’ll get access, plus the conversations around how everyone is styling the pieces IRL.
The Little Things We’re Doing For Ourselves
We’re still holding onto our New Year intention: to take care of ourselves. That means cozy, nourishing meals to get us through the tail end of winter, honest check-ins about movement goals, and trying out the fitness challenges Laurel shares inside the community.
This month she got us talking about the dead hang. You literally just hang from something and see how long you can last. Sounds easy. It is not easy. Apparently it’s one of those sneaky little markers of overall strength and aging 😅
If February has felt gray where you are, consider this your reminder that our community adds some color. Whether it’s a new outfit formula, a surprise promo code, or a 90-second hang that humbles you… we’re in it together. If you want to check it out without committing, there’s a free 7-day trial so you can see what it’s all about. Come join us 💛
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xo,
Aliya
