Weekend 9.14

I called Linz on Friday and before she could even say hello, I was all, “WHY ARE WE SO TIRED???” She immediately tried to blame it on “too much exercise” (omggg Linz, no, stop trying to get out of running), then moved onto “not enough food” (doubtful) and quickly rounded it out with “a mysterious form of cancer / possible brain tumor” which sounds about right.

It’s good when you have people who get you. That’s all I’m saying.

The best neck cream? Quite a bold statement to open with, but I’ve been using this neck cream for almost two months now and GOOD GRIEF IT’S GOOD. I suspect it’s the caffeine + major moisturizers – apparently you have to keep using it or the results disappear – but at this point I don’t care. It’s the first neck product I’ve used that actually seems to have some sort of tightening effect. Not huge, ok, it’s not, like, surgery…but the results are definitely not zero, either. (UPDATE: this stuff keeps selling out. Also try here.)

My way is better. Initially, I thought this Marc Jacobs bag said, “THE SNACK BAG” on it and got deeply excited. Boooooo. But okaaay Saks has a mini version – WITH STUDS – that is a total stunner. I especially like that the studs are a mix of gold and silver (still wish it said snack, tho).

Confirmed: That Faherty waffle-knit top I mentioned last week just came in and I LOVE IT. Such a cool, slouchy knit with an almost retro vibe (the stripes are unique and sooo good). Oh! Nordstrom is now carrying it, too, if interested.

Pupper’s orders. I do not *need* a cashmere sweater with a Bernedoodle on it but now I waaaaaaant a cashmere sweater with a Bernedoodle on it. It’s for NIEVE you guys. Ok? ps. there’s also a french bulldog.

FRAME vibes, but…in rayon. Which bugs me! While I am trying to stick to natural fibers…this dress does look like a workhorse kind of dress. The kind that could go to the office, school functions, and maybe even a party or two. It’s pretty darn gorgeous and under $100. The design is definitely giving FRAME vibes, and the reviews are glowing. Cotton or not, I’m intrigued.

Plays nicely with others. This Free People striped turtleneck is shockingly good. It’s made from a blend of cotton and lyocell, and has a really elevated texture – not smooth or clingy. There’s a heft that makes it feel really well made (and the neck isn’t annoying, either). Anyway, I got the blue stripe, but it’s so freaking good you wouldn’t go wrong with any of the colors.

I’m not really a tights girl, but then I saw these. Aaaaand now I want to build an entire outfit around them.

Adidas. Raines needed new sneakers (he picked these, in ‘night navy’) and socks (on sale!), but while I was there, I got distracted by…these moc shoes?? For him? Or me? I can’t decide. They also have this similar pair in darker colors…and any of these would be freaking amazing for apres ski, too. (Like UGGs, but for people who hate UGGs – and want something waterproof. Hmm.)

Wallabees. I’ve have been staring at these Clarks Wallabees forever, but after ordering a bunch, I’m keeping this pair from Freda Salvador (for double the price, gahhhh). They exceeded EVERY expectation. It turns out that I need a dark color for practical reasons, but most dark Wallabees end up looking boring. The Freda pair, however, has that line of contrast stitching that really elevates the look. They’re the coolest freaking shoes ever AND wildly comfortable, too. If it helps, this brand is one I love supporting. The founders (both moms) are great – we met in person, years ago – and these shoes are hand-sewn in El Salvador, in her family’s factory (originally started by her grandfather).

Who the heck is Elisa Johnson?? <– my first thought when I came across these sunglasses with maaajor Tom Ford vibes. So freaking cool! And designer-y! For under $150! Turns out (after a quick lil’ Google) that Elisa is Magic Johnson’s daughter. She’s been studying eyewear design, and eventually launched her own line in 2021 to “reflect a merging of different perspectives – classic and current, luxury and street”. You can see more of her line at Saks – it’s seriously cool.

Philly mamas: Perri Shaw Borish, the founder of Whole Heart Reproductive Mental Health (readers may remember her from this article, 5 Things A Maternal Health Expert Wants To Say To Mothers) is hosting a local support group for moms called, “Moms Who Are Losing Their Sh*t.” It’s designed to help deal with the frustration and overwhelm, and will be meeting Mondays at 5:30 throughout the fall. If interested, email sara@wholeheartpsych.com.

RIP Michaela. I was heartbroken to read of the passing of ballerina Michaela Mabinty DePrince (only 29!!). You can read a bit about her story here – it’s a tough read, but a really inspiring one, too. Her family is asking for donations in her honor to War Child, an organization she worked with for many years dedicated to the well-being and mental health of children living in war zones.

xo,

S