I LOVE Valentine’s Day!
Mainly because I love love in all forms: self-love, romantic love, love for your family, and of course, all the gal pal love! Whether you’re single (like me), in a committed relationship, or anything in-between, I think one of the most important aspects of Valentine’s Day is that you take some time to love on yourself! Bask in appreciation and admiration for YOU, because in my opinion, loving yourself — the unique beauty that you have, and all the great things you offer the world — enables you to love others more deeply and more passionately.
So my challenge to you all this Valentine’s Day is to practice a little love…just for you!
Wear a soft-yet-sexy robe while you indulge in a face mask and a glass of wine, dance it out in a crazy cute workout set that makes you feel good, treat yourself to a fancy at-home dinner while wearing a sultry dress, or take a few minutes to put on your favorite red lip and perfume.
The point is to just do something for you, no matter how big or small find that sexy little moment for yourself because you deserve to be a little self-indulgent! Find some inspo below to help spark your self-love practice this upcoming Valentine’s Day!
1. Rom Com + Wine
Does anything say ‘Single Sexy Valentine’ more than watching your favorite rom-com while decked out in all things cozy?! I am talking that Netflix and Chill-meets-Olivia Pope moment, cozied up in a seriously soft AF blanket with a BIG glass of wine and a bowl of delicious popcorn. Nothing gets better than this little moment of indulgence.
2. Sweat It Out
There’s something about sweating it out in a gorg workout set that makes me feel so damn good. I love that feeling you get when the endorphins start pumping, and your physical and mental ability are challenged. It makes me feel powerful and endlessly in love with myself. It feels amazing to move, and makes me so thankful for all that my beautiful body can do! She’s fierce and powerful, and I believe a sweat sesh is such an ultimate act of self-love. If you are looking to add in a fun new workout toy to your routine, then the Bala Power Ring is a must try. I LOVE mine!
3. A Self-Love Moment With Skincare & Beauty
Ladies, ladies, ladies…Luxurious face masking while decked out in nothing underneath a soft sultry robe is the best! What I love about skincare moments is that they can be a quick refresher for your skin, but can also be extra indulgent at the same time. I am head over heels with this velour Skims robe — it just looks…lush. And p.s. the first three picks in this edit are a few of my daily staples!
4. Dress To Impress…Yourself On Valentine’s Day
Put on a cute dress, or pants set just to impress you. I personally am obsessed with everything from Reformation, and both of my picks below are from their collection. Sustainable and sexy…yes, please! Add a cute heel for a pop of color and finish with a bold red lip! Bonus points if you snap a selfie because we are now in the era of “felt cute, won’t delete later!”
5. Sexy Self-Pleasure For The Solo On Valentine’s Day
Listen up ladies…we need to start embracing self-pleasure more! Loving yourself includes loving that ohhhh moment all thanks to you, and maybe the help of a toy too. Finding your ohhhhh solo or with a partner is just so gratifying! I personally am starting to get into lingerie more — I have the romper set below — and man, do I feel so sexy every. single. time I put it on!
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I hope you feel inspired to find some moments for yourself this holiday, ladies! Have a happy Valentine’s Day for you and all the special people in your life!
XX – Kat
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Oh hey Pinners, this one’s for you!
Fun post! I’ve been eyeing the mini cloud clutch for months now…waiting till my birthday to pull the trigger!
I bought mine a few months back and absolutely love it! It is the softest leather ever and personally my favorite size for a bag!
I have never left a comment but read your article and felt the need. I love your positive outlook. I am divorced and still struggle with it so I really appreciated your focus on being single and loving every aspect of yourself. And im interested in the wine you posted. Ill have to look into that! Thanks and I look forward to more from you.
Sending so much love and positive thoughts to you Melissa! Thanks for your support, and I’d love to hear your thoughts on the wine!
I’m seconding Melissa’s comment. While I am not single, or divorced, I absolutely love that you are including ALL the ladies this Valentine’s season!
Thanks Christa! 🙂